You have the power to change yourself. No one else can do it for you. Not your family, not your friends, not luck. Change ...

I shouldn’t focus on changing myself, they argued. I should focus instead on changing society—or, as one friend argued, I ...

When I first told my friends I was spending a year improving my personality, many of them were appalled. I shouldn’t focus on changing myself, they argued. I should focus instead on changing ...