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“Conflict is inevitable in all relationships. But it doesn’t have to divide you.” In Fight Right, Drs. John and Julie Gottman explain how disagreement can become a pathway to deeper understanding, trust, and connection. Drawing from research with over 3,000 couples, this book shows how successful partners handle conflict in ways that are gentle, constructive, and calm. This National Reading Month, discover how to turn conflict into growth. 👉 Learn more and get your copy here: https://bit.ly/4az
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